A couple of friends brought up this question during dinner last night which started off a blown up discussion into the matter. This was based on the fact that a friend of ours, Tracy settled down and really submits to her man.
Shamelessly one blurted out her boyfriend's financial status which is not the case following Tracy has a shoe business of her own.
I think the clear view would be the fact that he treats her right. You can't treat someone badly and expect them to follow up on your decisions.
It all comes down to respect. Respecting yourself and respecting your lady
Listening. And most people just listen to reply and don't take time to understand the message being sent across
Professing. So many people are so scared to appear lame, they can't be their gentleman selves.
I feel like that alone is enough for a lady to see you in a different light. A great example is Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Men and women have their different ways of submitting.
The discussion still continues, feel free to give your views.
Yes! I totally agree with you. If my man treats me right and is real with me especially when people are arround,regardless of how lame it might portray him out to be,it definately does make it easy to submit to his every decision because,clearly,he means well for me. This kind of man definately deserves the appreciation,I mean, it actually comes natural..and in my opinion, its got nothing to do with finances if we look at it in my perspect.
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